Running man ep 44 online dating
You’ll ‘run’ but you’ll go in fits and starts and you won’t be healthy.
The tank will never be full if you haven’t put your own self-love in the tank, so no matter how much you try and get others to fill up the void, what it needs is the reserve of your self-love.
is selling yourself short because you’re offloading the responsibility of your happiness on others and even when you do, you offload it to people who are not responsible ‘relationship drivers’ because you’re choosing people that mirror your negative beliefs.
There are only too many people out there who are willing to go and put some crappy ‘love oil’ in your ‘tank’.
But I had to be right so I sold myself short for several more months because of my pride.
I’d throw my energy into the limited capacity of a limited relationship.
It meant I could keep them at a distance, cater to the self-fulfilling prophecy, and ultimately never really put myself out there because I was too busy proving that I couldn’t be loved by people who had a limited capacity to love .
It suited me to think they’d leave – It meant that I was never really in it because I deep down expected them to go.
When you start working through the beliefs in your head, you’ll see how much your own internal angst is limiting you.
The pain you’re causing yourself – there’s another, far less painful route if only you’d start considering your options.